"My loved one is going into care" - Everything You Need to Know

You’ve most likely landed on this post because you’ve come to the sad realisation that your loved one needs round-the-clock care which can be provided by a care home. This experience may produce a myriad of conflicting emotions, with guilt tending to dominate. Feelings of guilt and hesitation are completely normal and are a testament to how dedicated you are to your family.

"The initial guilt a family feels deciding to move their loved one into a care home is heart-wrenching, but it's important to remember that the reason you've made the decision is that you're devoted to that person and want to ensure they get the care, attention and comfort they need," says Glaslyn Care Homes Director Ingrid James Wright.

If these emotions are overwhelming and you feel like your head is spinning, here’s some helpful advice that might make this tricky time easier for you.

1. Reach out and talk to someone

Chances are you know someone who’s been in a very similar situation. Talking to a good friend or a family member about what you’re experiencing has the potential to give you more clarity and will allow you to approach the decision with more calm. If these feelings of guilt are prolonged and affecting your day-to-day, please consider speaking to a mental health professional or consult your GP.

2. Pros and cons: remember all the benefits of care home assistance

Care homes encourage and promote socialisation amongst their residents, changing a previously lonely and socially isolated person into someone who has gained a new circle of friends with whom they can share numerous opportunities for newfound hobbies and interests.

3. Your loved one has come to the right place!

Our staff are at hand to make sure your family member feels happy, comfortable and taken care of! Care homes exist to take care of people who need it, so you couldn't have picked a better place.

4. Take care of yourself

It’s on everyone’s lips: self-care. Caring for someone can be a full-time job and if you have to balance work and home, this can be incredibly taxing on you and your relationships. Your loved one likely wants the best for you, so remember to look after yourself. Remember: you can’t help anyone if you can’t help yourself!

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If you have any further questions or would like more information about transitioning your loved one into a care home, please reach out to us by emailing info@glaslyncarehomes.co.uk